This is really tough for me but I am going to be honest and take a breath here it goes.
I am a virgin who suffers from depression and anxiety and I could use some help.
ASK THE EXPERT: QI have been married 10 years and we have four children aged 9, 7, 6 and 4.
Recently, I discovered that my husband has been using adult chat rooms online and seems to have been communicating in sexually explicit ways with other people.
To move forward, it is important that you continue to talk to your husband and try to understand the extent of his difficulties and what the underlying issues are for him.
At the heart of the problem of online “infidelity” is the fact that it is usually done in secret and without the partner’s knowledge – even with infrequent access this secrecy can reduce the intimacy between the couple and can be a first step on the road to bigger betrayals.
Up until this, I thought things were okay in our marriage, though of course we haven’t had much couple time with the demands of four children but this discovery has come as a bolt out of the blue.
It wouldn’t have been as bad if he was just accessing porn, as I know men do this, but the fact that he was talking to other people has really disgusted me.I am obviously desperate that's why I am resorting to this and probably going to get laughed at but I need to ... I'm interested in married female friends who'er trustworthy, respecting others privacy and would like charting of any kind, avices on marriage and counselling.I'm kind, humble, considerate, trustworthy, loving and etc. THE INFORMATION BELOW IS FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE UNAWARE OF SCAMMERS COMMON TACTICS AND IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY. SCAMMERS OFTEN PRETEND TO BE FROM EUROPE OR THE USA BUT THEY ARE OFTEN FROM AFRICA MOSTLY LOCATED IN GHANA AND NIGERIA. SCAMMERS OFTEN USE PICTURES OF ATTRACTIVE INNOCENT PEOPLE STOLEN FROM ... THE INFORMATION BELOW IS FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE UNAWARE OF SCAMMERS COMMON TACTICS AND IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY. SCAMMERS OFTEN PRETEND TO BE FROM EUROPE OR THE USA BUT THEY ARE OFTEN FROM AFRICA MOSTLY LOCATED IN GHANA AND NIGERIA. SCAMMERS OFTEN USE PICTURES OF ATTRACTIVE INNOCENT PEOPLE STOLEN FROM ...Of course your husband should not blame you and he must take responsibility for how he has hurt you with his online behaviour, but the two of you must take responsibility for improving the marriage.Though it may be painful, the fact that you have started talking about issues is a good sign.I am very respectfull with others and I do not like to play with other people feelings so I show as honest as ... I have responsibilities in life including a job that takes far too many precious hours and sees me being isolated far too much. It would be lovely to talk with people here and have some time, away from all the other things in life, that is just for me and you.