Seriously though, you have to be active in life and search out every possible way and take advantage of every opportunity that comes along that could lead you to finding your match.
If you don’t, I truly believe that you’re stalling the process of finding your soulmate.
Tarting up who you really are will only reel in someone captivated by the distorted image you’ve put out and that’s definitely your soulmate. Admittedly this does mean breaking through the comprehensive programming we’re relentlessly exposed to, but de-cluttering your consciousness is key to finding your soulmate.
While dating is immediate and conscious, connecting with your soulmate occurs on another level.
I’ve written countless articles on the do’s and don’ts of online dating, but you can start by reading one of them (see: “ It’s important that when you’re making a choice of expanding your options in meeting someone new, by trying to date someone that you’ve met online, that you know the positives and negatives that meeting someone online has.
As we all know, there are positives and negatives in everything in life, so it’s always good to be somewhat cautious. Remember, you need to go into every new situation with an open mind and an open heart in order to find real love.
Once you’ve started to put yourself out there, other than the world getting a vision of your hot, sexy self, it’s important to have an open heart and an open mind when it comes to meeting someone new.
You can’t expect anyone to be attracted to you superficially and merely for your looks, because any intelligent person, or dating master like myself (wink, wink) will be able to see right through you if you’re closed off emotionally or mentally.
There are many, upon many places that you can meet someone to date.
The only thing is that you have to put yourself out there.
Online dating can be very deflating at times, but so can dating in general be, so there’s no reason not to try it. It doesn’t hurt to give it a shot and open the door to finding your soulmate, which by the way, you can meet anywhere, including in an online dating site.