Given the choice between two women he is equally attracted to, he will choose the one who is more compatible with him in other ways which I explore below.
Affection Compatibility In general, men love to be touched.
For a man who chooses to opt out of the traditional family lifestyle, he will choose a woman who is forthright about the fact that she doesn’t want to go the traditional route, either.
For a man who wants the traditional marriage-child package, he will choose someone who is forthright about her wish to start a family.
For men who are social, they will look for a woman who loves to paint the town red — and do so on a regular basis! Traveling Together Another lifestyle goal that matters to men — and determines the kind of woman they’ll choose to be with — has to do with the amount of freedom she’ll give him.
A good barometer for the amount of freedom the relationship allows is, believe it or not, traveling.
Whether it’s the holiday season or Valentine’s Day or the magic of 4th of July fireworks, we know it’s the shared moments that are most special.
Yet this desire can cloud our judgment and lead to poor choices.
The point is simple: She must fit in with his crowd.
Lifestyle Value: Family Perhaps the most important lifestyle value men hold relates to family — whether a man wants to get married and have children.
At the end of the day, he is looking for someone who provides the best fit with respect to the categories above.
Though this recipe may not seem as romantic as the love-at-first-sight dynamic we see in the movies, understanding the roles these factors play can make your quest to find the right person a whole lot easier.
Then when it didn’t work out they’d feel badly…about themselves.