A shitty attitude, whether angry and aggressive or defeated and negative, will nuke any chance of sex or love faster than telling them that you eat live puppies. A short man with confidence is far more attractive than a tall guy without it.
The attitude that your height is a defect and nobody could possibly love a short man is attraction poison. Yes, you may have to fake it for a while as you unlearn the bullshit that’s been shredding your ego.
But my height has only been as much of a problem as I’d let it be.
When you can build presence, women won’t remember you as that short man at the party.
They’ll remember you as that incredibly charming guy who made them feel like he got them in a way nobody else did.
They’re the ones who stand out in people’s memories, who can command attention (and affection) with seeming ease.
One of the best things you can do – especially as a short man – is to develop your sense of presence.
Instead, you want clothes that are relatively consistent in hue.
They don’t have to be perfectly monochrome – you don’t need to dress head to toe in black, for example – but keeping things within the same color-scheme helps the eye track over your body without stopping.OK, before you click the back button in disgust, hear me out. We inevitably find our focus divided among the million little things that occupy our attention.But when we feel like someone is giving us their listening instead of waiting for your turn to talk – is absurdly powerful.Presence is, simply, your ability to command people’s attention.It’s the way that you can make people focus on present.You watch women – even women who’re around pass you by to date taller men. But you know what’s unattractive on aspect of your life.